The Imperative of Love

 

1 John 4:7 – 5:5

 

The Letters of John  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .  Max A Forsythe

 

Introduction:  One of my Christian friends once asked me why I thought the practice and understanding of the faith once given to the saints was at such low ebb in our time. I have to be careful with a loaded question like that. I do try very hard in the public sector to be as respectful as possible of the various faithful and unfaithful denominations of the Christian Church.  However, that charity is not always returned, and those of us who are reformed in thought find few clergy friends outside the usual suspects, so to speak.  In several places within the Presbytery – we have found true friends only here and there and it certainly helps our scattered pastors to find like minded gentlemen: other pastors with whom one does not have to weigh every comment before saying anything at all!

 

In the secular area as well, it is difficult to find close friends who become soul mates – people with whom you can truly relax and be yourself.  Over the twenty-five years I spent in public service, there were only a handful of other teachers and staff with whom I had this close relationship.  Students were another matter, each year – I could connect with five to ten, simply because there were so many more of them around.  Just a few years ago, one young lady told me that I was the first adult outside of her church who she felt comfortable talking with – since we shared the same world view.

 

Of course, it is not just enough to let these relationships happen, we need to be outgoing and always seeking those with whom we can share the closest secret of our lives – our relationship with God in Christ.  In the Gospel of Luke 6: 32, Jesus charges us: “If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.  And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you?  For even sinners do the same.”

 

I used to teach a three week course on the meaning of the word “love”.  In that course, I would go through the several models of understanding that essential word.  There were the philosophical, biological, psychological, literary and Christian understandings.  The psychological model goes a long way to explain where we are as a culture in our day.  In fact – the scripture verse just cited from Luke demonstrates the all too common focus on self-esteem that leads one to only love those who love you!  Self-centeredness is in and it is part of the natural common condition of all mankind.  The premise and promise of the Christian model is to get people to look outside of themselves and just as our God has done toward us, we too must learn to love the unlovely!  That is an increasing hard sell in our contemporary culture.

 

 

Development:  For years I had to endure the ongoing torture of teaching English language and literature as a foreign tongue to today’s amoral generation. The essential problem in doing that was to patiently demonstrate for more than six months that words have meaning.  Then going on to declare that meaning imposes an obligation to understand and finally there is an imperative to practice that meaning in one’s life! I was very  pleased on a  final exam one May  to notice that two of my  regular critics noted: that after  all of the  arguments - rantings and ravings they had  regularly heaped out all  year long: the  most important thing they had learned in one year of my "English as a foreign language" class, was the fact that words had  meaning and  meaning had  implications! Thank you Lord for blessing those students with that bit of hard won wisdom and for such unlikely candidates!

 

Some of you chuckled quietly last week when I observed that some of our own grades on the three test questions in our series on 1 John may be below "C" level and perhaps even a dismal D-. Yes, very, many Christians can articulate the correct answers and habits required in the social, moral and doctrinal questions raised by the Apostle John.  However, how well prepared are each of you to include the three contexts in a wholesome lifestyle pleasing to God? Yes, as I joked last week, it is good to get a D- in salvation.  You can get home to heaven with just such a grade card! But how pleased will your Father in heaven be with such a minimal grade? The issue before us today in these verses is the relationship between the three test questions. And what you should be concerned with is how to excel at demonstrating these characteristics in your lifestyle.

 

John R.W. Stott, the commentator whose outline I am following, divides our text into three parts. Briefly, verses seven to twelve summarizes the essentials of the social question. Verses thirteen to twenty combine the social with the doctrinal questions.  And verses one to five of chapter five weave the three questions together as a whole.   Now, let me warn you, this is deep stuff. I still have much to learn here as well. I would not even attempt this series outside of our Reformed circle, because not all of those who call themselves evangelical are willing to listen and learn as you here assembled are! It is indeed a pleasure and honor to have such a class of learners before this pulpit week after week.

 

Okay, let's wade into the first division of our text in verses seven to twelve of 1 John 4. If you mark in your Bibles, you should underline the words "love one another" three times. In verse seven "love one another" is used as an exhortation! Now, what is an exhortation? Webster describes it as “language intended to incite by argument and advice as well as to encourage.” Whenever I have had to sit down people to do intensive counseling I immediately begin by explaining the simple meaning of the word love and how to do it!

 

The second occurrence is in verse eleven where it is shown as a duty. "We also ought to love one another". Now that word "ought" is an unpopular word in our day. The critics once panned a popular book entitled The Way Things Ought to Be as archaic conservativism! Now, I am willing to guess that the author of that book is basing his premise on the charitable agape type of love which Western Civilization used to encourage.  And doing what one ought to do is a mark of being civilized! It is a lesson that the western culture is fast forgetting. One young lady once asked me what it meant to be civilized.  I looked at her and suggested that not burning her neck on motorcycle exhaust pipes might be a step in that direction! The next day she wore a turtle neck and I complimented her on appearing to be civilized!  Yes, we all know what we ought to do.  Just doing it is another thing!

 

The third example here demonstrates John's hypothesis in verse twelve. There's a word that you can just barely remember from school? "Hypothesis” in Webster's definition means “the formulation of a natural principle based on inference from observed data”.  So what principle does John describe here?

 

"If we love one another, God lives in us and his love are made complete in us." What if we don't love one another? What is the terrible implication of that suggestion?   It is quite simply this: if we can’t love those whom we can see, then we don't love God our Father in heaven.  The obverse side of that coin is this:  if we love the Father, we must also love each other to prove God's presence in our lives!

 

So now we come to the second division in our text for today (verses thirteen to twenty-one. The synthesis of the social and doctrinal issue in our daily living! As you look over those words, the doctrine there is carefully declared. John makes two points in this section. Verses thirteen to sixteen declare that we have the gift of the Holy Spirit. God Himself has come into our hearts. And by His presence, we are able to declare the correct doctrine that Jesus is the Son of God.  So, even if we are struggling to love one another, we should take encouragement that God is in us and we are in Him. 

 

So, there is hope, and if you have ever struggled to love another fellow Christian, that is the Spirit of God contending with your own spirit. Oh, you mean a lot of that heartache that I have experienced over the years can be profitable? Yes, “no pain, no gain” as the popular proverb goes. Only, here it is spiritual aches and growing pains preparing us for heaven.

 

Verses seventeen to twenty-one encourage us by showing us that “in this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the Day of Judgment." I sincerely hope that all of you have at least a "D-” in salvation. And if you realize that in the context of the questions we have been studying then any leftover worldly fear of dying has been forever put away!  Are any of you afraid to die? If you are, then you need to perfect your understanding of God's love for yourself. 

 

You see, left to your own some, you would not love God.  Very many in the world remain self-centered and humanistic because God has not come into their hearts. How can we tell if we are too worldly still? Look carefully at the ending of this section. "Who do you love?" the world would ask. A much more important question is "Who loves you?"   Can you demonstrate the presence of God's love in your life?

 

Finally we come to the third section in our text for today. In the first five verses of chapter five, John summarizes what he has been about. Like  an old joke  I heard about a fundamentalist preacher  who when asked  about his preaching  style answered:  First I tells them what  I'm going to tell them.  Second I go ahead and tell them clearly. And Third I close by telling them what I told them! This has been my habit in public school for seventeen years. Whenever we began a new instructional unit, I would hand out a list of seven goals.  Then we went through multiple pages of lecture notes outlining the content for those seven goals.  Finally, the students received a seven section test over those very same goals.  In that last step, I hoped that my students could tell me what I told them.  John too uses this method in this letter.

 

John begins the heart of his letter by telling us the three questions he is going to ask in chapter two. Then in chapter three he goes into the moral and doctrinal area.  In chapter four he covers doctrinal and social questions. Finally in this first part of chapter five he brings the three together again. What he is at great pains to show is the essential unity of his threefold thesis?  The moral, social and doctrinal aspects of the Christian faith are inseparable.  And how are we to pull this sanctified lifestyle together?  How are we to demonstrate faith, obedience and love?

 

Conclusion: Well, we can all pretty much agree that we ought to love God. We also ought to love His Son: Jesus Christ. What about God's other children? Huh, you say, what other children? Why you and you and you and all of those who publicly claim to be born again! You see, just like Jesus who was a natural Son of God, we have all been adopted into the Holy family.

 

Now, how do we show that we love each other? Look at verse two.  We show our love of God by obeying His commands. John promises us that His command to love one another is not burdensome. And further, if, as we grow in grace and sanctification, we better demonstrate the love of God in our lives we will see more and more victory as our God given faith overcomes the world in us and around us.

 

Finally, John closes this section with the observation of who is an overcomer! Recently, I had occasion to look over a tax guide who helps auditors and accountants to determine who is an employee and who is a contractor.  There are twenty IRS questions on the subject, and if any one of them is answered in the affirmative, then the person in question is an employee.  The text before us it not so time consuming and complex:  just look at verse five for the answer to who belongs to Christ: "He who believes that Jesus is the Son of God." May you all learn to affirm that grace in your heart, with your mouth and in your lives as well?  Amen.

 

Resources Used:              Barnes, Peter.                      Welwyn Commentary Series: Knowing Where We Stand.

Stott, John.                            Tyndale New Testament Commentaries: Epistles of John.

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